Let Your Fingers Do The Talking
IN TODAY’s GENX world, everyone networks or meet new people over the INTERNET . There are so many apps that help you increase your circle of friends, but communication through texting can be tricky.
1. Focus On Fun
Looking back at my romantic escapades, I have always fallen hardest for the “fun people”. You know, the people with tons of witty and interesting things to say, who have a way of not taking every conversation too seriously. So, even if you are trying to be romantic, don’t stick to sonnets and love quotes from the Internet. Send something playful, friendly, or even a little sexy. After all, making someone laugh and smile creates sexual tension, and keeps the conversation from stalling.
What To Text:
Just wondering – are you as turned on as me right now?
2. Kill It With Details
Much like snappy dressing, professional presentations and gourmet cooking, the devil is in the details. So before you start pressing random buttons on your phone, make sure that what you’ve written makes sense. One of my favourite tricks is reading my text messages out loud. Could they be easily misinterpreted as cold or aggressive? Is the punctuation correct? Are there tons of spelling errors? Random capitals?
Spend the extra 20 seconds to make sure that they look aesthetically pleasing and that the content doesn’t leave any room for doubt.
3. Be Patient
Even though modern communication is often fast-paced, you may still find yourself occasionally waiting for a response. Take a chill pill! A pause between replies doesn’t necessarily mean that a conversation is over. Remember, the goal is to have fun, and often the more distant you are, the more attractive you become to your partner. If you really want to be sexy, be the person to pull the plug first. The ultimate key to seduction is leaving and your partner wanting more. Key take away: mastering how to keep a text conversation going means being patient.
What To Text:
Too bad you’re busy…I was going to send you something special.
You making a snowman or something over there?
4. Show Interest In Your Partner
It may seem like a no-brainer, but it’s uber important. Before you go on and on about your long commute or your crazy job, stop and turn the conversation toward the person at the other end. It’s surprising how many people practice one-way text conversations…yawn!!
Ask questions that will encourage your partner to say more than a few words and make them feel special, not like they are being interviewed for a new job.
What To Text:
Beautiful day, beautiful girl…how did your race go?
Dinner was amazing. I’m curious—where’d you learn how to cook like that?
Would you even miss your favourite web series just to be with me?
Learning how to keep a text conversation going takes some effort, but once you enjoy a little flirtatious virtual communication, you’ll be up for the challenge! ALL THE BEST
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